Here are some useful links for a variety of different aspects of BDSM and kink that I have picked up over the years. From Audio porn, Events, kink friendly clubs, podcasts, health and Well being advice, Toys for couples and BDSM guidelines explained, they are here and I hope you find at least some of these useful.
A Personal Collection of Useful BDSM Content
Audio Porn & PodCasts
- Girl on The Net – https://www.girlonthenet.com/audio-porn/ – GOTN is Hugley engaging and is fast becoming one of the leaders of Audio Porn. A selection of the hottest stories on the site, available as audio porn, plus amazing stories (both fiction and non-fiction) from a selection of incredible guest writers.
- Sub in the City – https://open.spotify.com/episode/6hvjikVQNoNZB5T1Z2zsiS?si=rG4_bMUDRCKjJ8ftBvYi1w – Bonding – a kinky podcast hosted by Sarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City. She is a BDSM Coach, Kink Educator, Sex-Positive Therapist, and proudly collared submissive with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. On a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters like yourselves to consciously explore what BDSM means to you.
Bloggers & Toy Reviews
- Blogger / Toy Reviews – Girl on the Net – Sexy stories, mostly true | Girl on the Net – Honestly the way she writes is so relatable and brilliantly engaging. Great writer. Girl on the Net is a London-based sex blogger – she writes explicit sex stories, so please consider this whole site NSFW. Alongside real-life sex stories, expect posts about feminism, porn, mental health, and fascinating fetishes. Now one of the biggest sex blogs in the UK
- Blogger / Toy Reviews – Coffee and Kink – https://coffeeandkink.me/ – Coffee & Kink is designed to be an accessible and inclusive space for people to read, learn, expand their horizons, and start having conversations.
YouTube Channel
- Evie Lupine – https://www.youtube.com/EvieLupine
- Hannah Whitton – https://www.youtube.com/@hannahwitton
- Ms. Elle X – https://www.youtube.com/@ElleX
- Whipple Tickle – https://www.youtube.com/@WhippleTickle
Websites
- Kink Academy – https://www.kinkacademy.com/ – Great website for learning about kink and the kink world
- The Duchy – https://www.theduchy.com/ – One of the oldest and friendliest places on the web to learn about rope bondage, shibari (sometimes referred to as Japanese rope bondage) and other rope-related BDSM skills.
- Bad Girls Bible – BDSM Guides – https://badgirlsbible.com/bdsm-ssc-rack-prick
Sexual Wellbeing
- April Maria – https://www.aprilmaria.com/ – April Maria is a qualified sex educator, sex and relationships coach and training psychosexual and relationships therapist. For the last five years, April has been working in the field of sex education, sex tech, endometriosis awareness and helping others when it comes to sexual wellness, intimacy, dating and relationships
Sex Toys
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- Best toy for couples – https://www.lovense.com/
Books
- The Ethical Slut – By Janet W Hardy and Dossie Easton – https://amzn.eu/d/9mb8atr
- Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook – By Michael Makai – https://amzn.eu/d/4Dc5aj8
- The Ultimate Guide to kink: Bdsm, Role Play and the Erotic Edge – By Tristan Taorminoo – https://www.amazon.co.uk/Ultimate-Guide-Kink-Tristan-Taormino/dp/157344779X
- Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose – By – Leigh Cowart – https://www.amazon.co.uk/Hurts-So-Good-Science-Culture/dp/154179804X
Kink Shopping
- London Alternative Market – https://londonalternativemarket.com/ LAM or London Alternative Market is a Kink+ event for adults it provides a unique blend of shopping, socializing and education on a monthly basis. One of the unique features of LAM is that with clear policies and procedures you can see what the event is about before you decide to attend and the 1pm newbie orientation is designed to help people quickly find their feet at the event. With no dress code although fetish and personal expression are encouraged (nudity not permitted) its a great place to come explore without having to invest thousands in clothing.
Kink Events
- Torture Garden – https://torturegarden.com/
- Klub Verboton – https://klubverboten.com/
Sex Clubs
- West Bromwich – Xtasia https://www.xtasia.co.uk/
- Wirral – Townhouse – https://townhouseswingers.com/
- Purple Mamba – Nottingham – https://www.purplemambaclub.com/
- Pandora – Leeds – https://www.pandoraswingers.com/
Dungeons
- London – Blue Door https://www.bluedoordungeon.com/
- Leeds – Chambers of Deprivation https://www.aleedschamber.co.uk/
- High Wycombe – Secret Dungeon – https://www.thesecretdungeon.co.uk/
- Brighton – https://brightondungeon.com/
- Derby – https://celestialstudios.co.uk/