FAQs

You can of course be naked if you wish but there is no must or pressure for you to undress or to be naked. I suggest wearing clothes, lingerie or a kinky outfit that you feel most comfortable to play in but remember that some activities won’t be possible if you remain clothed in a certain way.

There are two options here. Option 1 is to wear what you are comfortable in for the experience. Option 2 is that you send me 3 options of clothes and 3 options of underwear from you current wardrobe and I select what you wear for the session. Option 2 adds some fun and Dom/Sub dynamic along with you being more confident for the session as you know when you turn up you are wearing what I think you look great in!

I travel across the UK in general but also international for specific clients. My travel costs for the UK are £50 per hour plus expenses. If I am driving the £50 includes costs however if I need to get a train or flight then the costs are in addition. Some clients like me to let them know when I am in the area near them so they can book at the same time, this is fine and it reduces the travel costs. Feel free to ask me costs or be added to the list of clients for certain areas. International bookings are on a price basis.

FUN!! Lots of fun! So if you have taken the step to contact me to explore BDSM for the first time then you need to be shown the DO’s the Don’ts and the safe ways to explore. I will

So as a beginner we would do an ‘Introduction to BDSM’ which will be a Safe & Informative first experience

If you’re new to BDSM and curious to explore it in a safe, open minded environment, my “Introduction to BDSM” session is designed just for you. These sessions are created specifically for beginners who have never tried BDSM (or have very little real-life experience) and want to explore it properly with a professional Dominant.

Or maybe you have had an bad or unhappy with a previous experience with someone and want to learn in a safe, judgment-free space with a knowledgeable Professional Dominant

This session serves two main purposes:

2. Build Confidence – maybe you are to shy to discuss with your partners or need some help with body confidence, BDSM has been thought to help you build confidence. Whether you choose to continue on your own or with a partner, you’ll leave the session with some knowledge needed to navigate BDSM safely.

1. Experience and Learn – You’ll be able to try out various BDSM activities, particularly those found in a D/S dynamics, in a relaxed, no-pressure environment. You’ll also learn about risks and best practices associated with them activities.

We would communicate before hand to ensure you feel comfortable and safe. I will send a BDSM checklist across so that you can complete this prior to meeting and I ensure that we meet for a drink/ coffee for the first 45 minutes to 1 hr of the session.

During our time together, I’ll guide you through a range of different BDSM aspects and key topics. To help you feel comfortable.

Hands-on experiences – Collaring, restraints, spanking, impact play such as floggers and paddles, sensory play, and more.

Play safety – What to expect from certain BDSM activities like bondage, impact play, clamps etc — so you can understand safe practices or even demonstrate to an inexperienced partner how you like it.

Consent & Communication – The basis of any healthy BDSM dynamic.

BDSM Myths vs. Reality – Understanding what’s true and what’s just fantasy or made up.

Advice on Kink Communities – Exploring dating apps in Fetlife, BDSM events, Dungeons.

Techniques to Try at Home – Practical skills you can explore solo or with a partner.

You’re encouraged to ask as many questions as you’d like. I want you to leave feeling confident, prepared and excited to explore.

Each session is customized based on what you’re comfortable with, but here’s a general outline:

• Introduction & Discussion – Ask any questions and we will run through what you are comfortable to try.
• Collaring & Inspection Play – Experiencing aspects of D/s.
• Basic Service Training – Learning some small submissive gestures.
• Sensation & Impact Play – Trying different forms of stimulation and impact if you wish. Not every like impact play.
• Aftercare & Emotional Processing – Understanding the importance of care after a scene.
• Safety & Consent – Learning best practices and how to protect yourself.
• Finding Kinky Communities – Where and how to meet people safely if you wish too
• Final Q&A – Ask anything at all

The session is flexible—if you’d rather focus on discussions with less play or skip certain things, that’s fine. The goal is for you to learn and explore at your own pace.

If you’re ready to take your first step into BDSM in a safe, educational, and enjoyable way, this session is the perfect starting point.

The service I offer is a safe non-judgemental environment to explore your kinks, wants, desires and fantasies. I suggest letting a friend know where you are and scheduling in a ‘safe call’ or a ‘I’m Safe’ message with someone. We can meet at a location where you feel safe, be that a hotel or dungeon. I suggest also meeting for a coffee or drink in a public place first for 1 hour before your first session to ensure you feel comfortable.

If you are booking the location/venue ie a hotel or dungeon then a 50% deposit for my time is required to reserve the booking with me via PayPal and then the rest paid cash with in 15 minutes of arrival. If you would like me to book the hotel or dungeon the the 50% deposit plus the cost of the venue needs to be paid upfront.

My whole service is based on discretion and privacy. Whatever your situation we can adapt so that you get the level of privacy you need. I have many clients that even require me to sign an NDA due to them being in the public eye in one way or another and there is no issue with this at all. As you can see I do not show my face and therefore that ensures even more of a discreet service if we are in a public area.

Yes, clients book me for overnight sessions. The standard session is 12 hours with a minimum of 5 hours sleep.

Yes I have been a House Dom at many events over the years from small VIP private parties to large events of up to 1000 people. If you are an individual looking to book me as their Dom party or event partner this is also something I can do!

Sessions can be in any hotel, Air bnb or dungeon and even your own home (subject to a conversation before hand). Basically anywhere you feel comfortable to play in

The only thing you need to bring is yourself! If the session is in a dungeon then there will be plenty of toys and equipment there. If it is a hotel I have a lot of toys and accessories that I will bring along to have fun with.

However, the below are things you may wish to consider depending on the session and location-

• Any toys or accessories you have that you like
• Any makeup, personal hygiene items, toothbrush etc
• Change of clothes/ Underwear
• Water / Drink
• Towel